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Leadership
Oct. 16th 08:28 AM 2008
"Every time you have to speak, you are auditioning for leadership." - James C. Humes"A boss creates fear, a leader confidence. A boss fixes blame, a leader corrects mistakes. A boss knows all, a leader asks questions. A boss makes work drudgery, a leader makes it interesting." - Russell H. Ewing
"Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things." - Peter F. Drucker
"It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself." - Eleanor Roosevelt
"Outstanding people have one thing in common: an absolute sense of mission." - Zig Ziglar
"There is only one way to get anybody to do anything. And that is by making the other person want to do it." - Dale Carnegie
"Pull the string, and it will follow wherever you wish. Push it, and it will go nowhere at all." - Dwight D. Eisenhower
"Leadership: The art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it." - Dwight D. Eisenhower
"Popularity is not leadership." - Richard Marcinko
"The function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers." - Ralph Nader
"If you want to build a ship, don't drum up the men to go to the forest to gather wood, saw it, and nail the planks together. Instead, teach them the desire for the sea." - Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Leaders must be close enough to relate to others, but far enough ahead to motivate them." - John Maxwell
"The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help them or concluded that you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership." - Colin Powell
"Nothing so conclusively proves a man's ability to lead others as what he does from day to day to lead himself." - Thomas Watson, Sr.
"An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power... distance yourself from the present moment and think objectively about the past and future. Look in both directions at once." - Robert Greene
"Every organization must be prepared to abandon everything it does to survive in the future." - Peter Drucker
"Don't tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results." - George S. Patton
"Processes don't do work, people do." - John Seely Brown
General Communication
Oct. 16th 08:27 AM 2008
"Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible - the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family." - Virginia Satir"Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind." - Rudyard Kipling
"Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after." - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
"The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives." - Anthony Robbins
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." - George Bernard Shaw
"If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge." - Napoleon Hill
"The 'self-image' is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the self image and you change the personality and the behavior." - Maxwell Maltz
"Communication works for those who work at it." - John Powell
"Good communication does not mean that you have to speak in perfectly formed sentences and paragraphs. It isn't about slickness. Simple and clear go a long way." - John Kotter
"The tongue is the only tool that gets sharper with use." - Washington Irving
"If you just communicate you can get by. But if you skillfully communicate, you can work miracles." - Jim Rohn
"I wasn't a great communicator, but I communicated great things." - Ronald Reagan
Confidence and Fear
Oct. 16th 08:25 AM 2008
"Fear is natural. Be with it." - Thomas Leonard"Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong." - Peter T. McIntyre
"When we have the courage to speak out – to break our silence – we inspire the rest of the 'moderates' in our communities to speak up and voice their views." - Sharon Schuster
"Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy." - Brian Tracy
"Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment." - Thomas Carlyle
"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt
"The man who acquires the ability to take full possession of his own mind may take possession of anything else to which he is justly entitled." - Andrew Carnegie
"Self-confidence is the result of a successfully survived risk." - Jack Gibb
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss
"Never forget that only dead fish swim with the stream." - Malcolm Muggeridge
"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually fear you will make one." - Elbert Hubbard
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." - Franklin Roosevelt
"All you have to do to diminish your fear is to develop more trust in your ability to handle whatever comes your way." - Susan Jeffers
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear." - Ambrose Redmoon
"There is no coming to consciousness without pain." - Carl Gustav Jung
"Cowards die many times before their deaths." - William Shakespeare
"Go to the edge of the cliff and jump off. Build your wings on the way down." - Ray Bradbury
"Confidence is what you have before you understand the problem." - Woody Allen
Stick to It
Oct. 16th 08:22 AM 2008
According to William S. Banowsky, the story of one of America's greatest leaders is actually a story of repeated failures and dogged persistence:In 1831 he failed in business.
In 1832 he was defeated for the state legislature.
In 1833 he failed again in business.
In 1834 he was elected to the state legislature.
In 1835 his sweetheart died.
In 1836 he had a nervous breakdown.
In 1838 he was defeated for Speaker.
In 1840 he was defeated for Elector.
In 1843 he was defeated for Congress.
In 1846 he was elected for one term to Congress.
In 1848 he was defeated again for Congress.
In 1855 he was defeated for the Senate.
In 1856 he was defeated for Vice President.
In 1858 he was defeated again for the Senate.
In 1860 he, finally, was elected President of the United States. And these are just a few of the rough spots in the life of Abraham Lincoln.
Someone said, "Failure is the line of least persistence." My mother called it "stick-to-it- iv-ness." It generally boils down to a healthy combination of faith and hard work, and it usually means success.
Just Do Something
Oct. 16th 08:18 AM 2008
I once stopped behind several cars in an intersection. The winter weather was icy cold and a strong artic wind blew relentlessly. Ahead of me a young woman stood alongside the street rubbing her bare hands together and dancing in place to keep warm. Beside her rested a sign that read, "I have a baby and no food." She was obviously crying, likely from the pain of the cold wind.Homeless and unemployed people are a common sight in many of our larger cities, and most motorists drive by without offering assistance. They have no doubt been taught that giving money fosters a dependent lifestyle, or the ready cash may be used to purchase alcohol or another substance rather than the food it was intended for. Like me, they may have been taught that one should give to a local charity or through one's church, as these institutions can help those in need far more effectively.
This, of course, is true, but I am reminded of the college students who encountered a homeless man on the sidewalk. One of the students took a couple of dollars from his wallet and handed it to the unfortunate stranger. His friend commented, "Why did you do that? He's just going to spend it on booze or drugs." The student answered, "Yeah...like we're not!"
As I waited for the light to turn, I felt conflicted about that young woman. Whether or not I should give money, she was obviously in need. And whether or not she actually had a baby really didn't seem to matter. I gave up guessing people's motives and analyzing their stories long ago. It was cold. She was cold. And she obviously felt she had to be there.
What should I do? Give her money? What was best?
As I wrestled with these questions, the window rolled down from the car in front of me and a hand shot out holding a warm pair of gloves. The driver took her own gloves off and gave them to the shivering woman. I saw the young woman mouth the words "Thank you" as a broad smile lit up her face.
As I debated, somebody else helped. As I hesitated, somebody else acted. As I tried to decide the BEST way to assist, somebody else quickly did what she could. As I did nothing, she did something.
I made myself a pledge that day to always do SOMETHING. Whether it is big or small, just do something. Something is almost always better than nothing!
Educator Leo Buscaglia said, "Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." Don't underestimate what you CAN do! Each of us can do something, and the something you do may be more important than you'll ever know.
MAKE YOUR CHOICE WISELY
Oct. 15th 02:46 PM 2008
Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you can not bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond that pain.""March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life's path."
"The timeless in you is aware of life's timelessness; and knows that yesterday is but today's memory and tomorrow is today's dream."
"To measure you by your smallest deed is to reckon the ocean by the frailty of its foam, To judge you by your failures is to cast blame upon the seasons for their inconsistencies."
"To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to."
"Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity."
"We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them."
"Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens. "
